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Thursday, July 21, 2022

Soup Night - Building Community - one small group at a time

Building Community - piece by piece, bowl by bowl

A friend sent me this piece by Joan Chittister from January of this year.  
https://www.ncronline.org/news/opinion/what-us-needs-most-right-now-what-we-lack-community

The author is a Catholic Sister or Nun - quite engaged, a writer, speaker, etc. She is shocked at our nation's failure to create community. We seem to be falling apart at the seams. But we seem really short on ideas for fixing the problem. 

I have spent the last few years reading and writing about how we failed humans operate or fail to operate. There's not much I can do about our fearless leaders - Sister Joan seems quite upset with them. 

I donate a few dollars. I support some of our local politicians - and sometimes they actually listen to my concerns. But for the national level, my only real contact in my whole life has been to thank three sitting US. Senators for their service on our behalf: Rudy Boschwitz, Paul Wellstone and Al Franken. I have met Norm Coleman but he was not a Senator then. And I was once in the same room with  Hubert Humphrey, and then once with Walter Mondale - the latter was a REALLY big room - an airplane hanger. 

They all seemed to appreciate the thought, but  . . . my ability to influence that whole process is non existent. I am worried about it, but  . . . what can I really do?

What I can do is reach out to my neighbors, and get to know them. Our neighborhood is mostly retired folk. We lean a bit progressive, but a lot of us fy U.S. flags night and day and vote conservative. We represent a broad spectrum of religions: None, to Buddhist and Catholic and Baptist.  We have a little racial diversity. This is my community, and we helped create it. 

In 2014, my lovely wife and I were driving to "the lake", and we heard a book review on NPR. It was about this book: Soup Night - Recipes for Creating Community Around a Pot of Soup. I never bought a copy of the book, an I feel bad about that, because we owe the author a round of thanks. 

Because of that book review, we live in the best neighborhood in town. All of our neighbors say that this is the best neighborhood they have ever lived in. I know them all by name. I know some of their kids, grandkids, friends. If I need a tool, or a long ladder, I know who has one. If I need a hand, I have many friends to call on. If I go to their door, they always greet me warmly. Some exchange small gifts of baked goods for holidays. We have supported folks with serious illness. We have banded together to get a group discount on window washing, or vent cleaning. 

After our immediate family and our church friends, this is our community. We value these people, We respect them and their values and opinions. We are not about trying to change them. We are certainly not in competition with them. If I need some help, I know where to look. If someone is messing around with the neighbor's car or garage, I will certainly challenge them. My neighbor would have let me know that someone was going to be there while they were gone.

We think that cities and neighborhoods work better when people actually get to know each other.    
(See Bowling Alone, by Robert Putnam.)

The author suggested that we use some simple rules:

  • SOUP and bread period – nothing fancy. Well, we do have a brat guy, an a pizza chef.
  • 3rd Sunday of the month. BUT the volunteer host can change that if they want.
  • 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm – it’s nice to have a clear ending time. People DO leave at 7:00! 
  • SOMEONE needs to send a reminder email a week or so ahead to remind people. 
  • Let the host know if you can make it – so they can plan on quantities.
  • Take turns – we posted a sign-up sheet at the first soup night, and people volunteered.
         Repost the sheet for each event. 
  • No big deal if someone cannot make it on occasion.
  • The first time, we asked guests to bring their own BOWL!   
    (The idea was to cut down on cleanup chores!)      We eventually dropped that.

    Give it a shot – it costs almost nothing, and it gives real benefits. And it might be contagious. 

    Let me know how that goes.


    Monday, July 4, 2022

    WorldView or Cultural Psychology - the way humans work

     WorldView or Cultural Psychology - the way humans work


    The King of Sweden Story and WorldView

    If you have been following along here, you would know that since I visited Tanzania in 2000 I have been fascinated by the idea that we humans are walking around with a kind of “framework” or “worldview” in our heads that dominates how we “think” about things. My best example is this story of the King of Sweden. In 1988, he was trying to buy presents for his family in a department store in Stockholm - and he wanted to write a check. The clerk would not take his check without a “check card.” In Sweden, the king is just not a big deal. Their culture, their worldview of social hierarchy is very flat. That is not conscious, and it does not change easily. You can find that story in Hoffstede’s book, Cultures and Organizations, Software of the Mind. It is still a great read. I also wrote extensively about it in this earlier post: https://carlscheider.blogspot.com/2014/03/culture-is-key-to-development.html


    Cultural Psychology

    In the intervening years since I discovered this, thanks to some pioneers, one of them being Geert Hofstede, this idea has become a whole field of scientific research called “cultural psychology”. I think this has enormous potential to help us understand our whole world of politics, economics, and the like. We might even be able to make a few changes to improve things. You can get a quick overview of what this field is from this Freakonomics Radio podcast episode #469. 

    The U.S. Is Just Different:  

    https://freakonomics.com/podcast/american-culture-1/ 

    There is a transcript if you are of the “reading” mindset, and not of the “listening”. There is also a bibliography. Geert Hofstede’s son is cited, as well as Joe Heinrich (The Weirdest People)  whom I have cited here in the past. 


    Tight vs Loose

    This episode introduces Michele Gelfand, a scientist studying cultural psychology. They talk mostly about one cultural dimension: tight vs loose. In a “tight” culture, rules are very important, and must be followed. Laws are strict, are strictly enforced, hierarchy and position are important, authority is unquestioned, etc. You might see that as all positive, but in a “loose” culture, people are much more creative, innovative, risk taking, progressive. California is the “loosest” state in our very “loose” United States. 


    Her book is Rule Makers, Rule Breakers How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World 9/11/2018. Her team of scientists have generated 9 volumes of studies in this field: Handbook of Advances in Culture and Psychology: Volume 9   2022  $85.

    This is Amazon’s blurb on this annual collection: 

    With applications throughout the social sciences, culture and psychology is a rapidly growing field that has experienced a surge in publications over the last decade. From this proliferation of books, chapters, and journal articles, exciting developments have emerged in the relationship of culture to cognitive processes, human development, psychopathology, social behavior, organizational behavior, neuroscience, language, marketing, and other topics. In recognition of this exponential growth, Advances in Culture and Psychology is the first annual series to offer state-of-the-art reviews of scholarly research in the growing field of culture and psychology.


    This is a BIG DEAL

    IMHO this is a very big deal. I have been reading behavioral economics, the neuroscience of politics, and the psychology of tribal grouping and the like - and these folks have given this a deeper perspective. I think this opens a door to research to better understand how our human world actually works. The first step to changing something is to understand what is actually going on.


    Culture and Diversity Within Individuals and Nations

    Let’s be very clear on this - every individual has a personal and unique worldview or cultural psychology. It comes from your whole life history - family, peers, cultural milieu. You can change it, but only with a lot of effort. This  is your “fast brain” - the worldview that your brain uses most of the time. It is difficult to get your “slow brain” to pay attention to it, and potentially move it a bit. But that will only work for you as an individual. As the author says in the podcast:

    Within countries, there is of course enormous variation. There are plenty of looser people in tight countries and vice versa. But remember what Hofstede told us:

    HOFSTEDE: You’re like one drop in the Mississippi River. You may decide to go another way, but that doesn’t make the river change. 


    Other Dimensions than Tight / Loose

    Hofstede actually came up with 5 dimensions initially, and added a 6th with further research. Some scholars have added a few additional ones. (Nickerson)

    Hofstede’s initial six key dimensions include power distance, uncertainty avoidance, individualism-collectivism, masculinity-femininity, and short vs. long-term orientation. Later researchers added restraint vs. indulgence to this list. 

    There are probably thousands of these influences in our brains, but we need to simplify things down to the range of 6 categories or so in order to get a handle on them. Gelfand’s tight / loose is very similar to Hofstede’s masculinity-femininity. He sometimes called it hard / soft. I find all of them to be very helpful to understand human behavior. I think there are a few more I would like to see researched in more depth, such as the one described below: “In-charge”.


    The In-Charge WorldView

    I would add one that I found in East Africa which I would call “being in charge of life”, or the In-Charge view. I am still kind of amazed that it even exists and the power it has to alter our behavior.. It is an excellent example of what we are talking about. These worldviews or cultural psychological persuasions affect every decision that we make, and we are virtually unconscious of them. I have written at some length in the blog entry cited above, but here is a short story - about a rope swing.  


    In 2000, my son and I were visiting a good friend, a missionary in Africa. One of his volunteers, a Mennonite from Canada (an interesting cultural mix), made a simple rope swing for the kids in the school. He tied a rope to a board, and hung it from a tree. The kids loved it. I found it interesting that no one had ever made one before. One day the kids pushed it really hard, and it got stuck up in the branches. He said he thought he would wait and see what happened. That swing was up in that tree for 4 months. The kids would stop and look at it, and lament that they had no swing. They saw him put it up there, and they could probably climb the tree to get it back down. But they did not! Why? 


    We had another instance of the same worldview when the water stopped. This small place, near Endulen,Tanzania, is home to several hundred Masaai. Their water came from a single pipe that ran a mile from the hospital. The hospital was built 30 years prior by the Belgians, and they installed a generator, a well, and a single pipe to provide water to this small community. One day, we walked over from the hospital and people told us: “The water stopped. No water.” Well, we had showered that morning, so we were sure the well was working. I asked what happened. They said, “The water stopped”. My first reaction was - let’s go see what’s up with it. So I asked, had it stopped in the past? They said, “Yes. Sometimes the pipe is broken.” I asked what they were going to do for water. They said they would walk down to the stream and fill jars with water, and carry them back up - about a half a mile. And that they only took water from the upper part of the stream, above the dam that the British built way back. The water on the other side of the dam was for the animals to drink. It seemed very clear that no one was going to go try to fix the water pipe? Why?


    My simplistic conclusion, based on just this tiny bit of empirical evidence, is that the culture which I grew up in tells me that I am in charge of life. It tells me that I am in charge of the planet. If something is broken, or needs attention, I can do that. If I come upon a toilet running anywhere in the world, I will lift the lid and fix it. My culture thinks we can install a democracy anywhere in the world - no problem. East African culture seems to have a worldview that they are NOT in charge of life. Life to them is something that happens to you. I do not know the roots of that, but it might go back to hundreds of thousands of years of basically hunting / gathering. Food shows up - or it does not. Diseases come and go. You can invoke spirits and shamans - but doing anything else simply does not occur to you. They know exactly what causes AIDS, but they take almost no steps to avoid getting it. They are not lazy - they work very hard just to stay alive. But it does not occur to them that they are in charge of things. 

    The swing appeared. The water appeared. And then it was gone. Too bad, so sad.


    They are taught how HIV is passed on, but they do almost nothing to avoid it. When we were there, 40% of the people who presented themselves for treatment in the hospital were HIV positive. 

    It is still difficult for me to understand that there is a whole culture that thinks that life is something that happens to you. In Nicaragua, based on personal observation, I think the prevailing view is that “someone else is in charge of life”. It is the boss, the government, the army, the northamerians - someone else - not me. 


    A Behavioral Scientist / Science

    Popular articles describe this approach as Behavioral Psychology, or characterize the practitioners as Behavioral Scientists. It seems to be an interesting outgrowth of “behavioral economics”, thank you Daniel Kahneman.


    Sources of Culture

    A cultural psychology of worldview forms over hundreds of years. The podcast says that threats give rise to a more tight culture. They can be climate, weather, war, things of that ilk. There is some research into what weather and environment have contributed to various cultures. My personal theory is that the Scandinavians like our Swedish king are unique for a combination of reasons. They live in the far north. They had to pull together just to survive the winters. AND they were never part of the Roman Empire or Holy Roman Empire. No one ever bestowed on them a leader that was ordained or designated by any higher power. When they wanted a king, they went to France to find a member of a royal family.


    Similarly, Costa Rica has a very different culture than most of Latin America. Hoffstede’s theory is that it was mostly populated by families with Jewish heritage that fled the Spanish persecution of Judaism. The Muslim government had no probem with Jews back then. When the Catholics took over, you had best become Christian.


    Neither Side is Best - Both are Needed

    By the way, Gelfand doesn’t really take a position on whether loose or tight is superior. She argues that both styles have their upsides and their downsides. A loose country, like the U.S., tends to do well in creativity and innovation; in tolerance and openness; in free speech and a free press. The downsides of looseness are less coordination, less self-control; more crime and quality-of-life problems.


    Cultural Change through Backlash

    The podcast talks about the former Communist regimes in Eastern Europe. Under Soviet domination, their whole world was forced to be “tight”. Everything was controlled from the top down, rules were absolute, etc. When those governments were overthrown, the reaction of the populace was to go to the other extreme. Those cultures now are very “loose”. Ukraine is one prime example. The pendulum swings - and that is hopeful for the U.S. culture at some point. 


    A Light in the Tunnel

    When I first ran into this idea, I found it just remarkable. It seems amazing that our decisions can be profoundly shaped by psychological tendencies in our brain, in our culture, below our level of awareness. Daniel Kahneman’s work explained some of the psychological tendencies for this. Thaler applied the idea to economics to give us Behavior Economics. Now this new field of science, behavioral cultural psychology, holds the promise to help us understand it more fully. I have to read more to see if this can actually help us understand how we might manage this a little better to help us move forward.


    Diversity Reigns

    My gut, my “fast brain” thinks that the ultimate answer is that “Diversity Is King”. When one world view dominates, we tend to miss a lot of perspectives and opportunities. It would be like having one religion, one language, one way of thinking. Each dimension of cultural difference brings some strengths and some problems. I doubt that we could ever artificially create a common global or even national culture that would serve us in all instances. 


    Today, we are separated by national borders, so that a country’s culture remains somewhat uniform and static over time. I think one of the secret weapons of the U.S. culture has been our relatively open borders. We have welcomed many different cultures. They tend to blend after a few generations, but their influence is felt even a hundred years later. See the book: American Nations: A History of the Eleven Rival Regional Cultures of North America, by Colin Woodard.


    If the world eventually breaks down our political borders, it would behoove us to foster cultural differences within our nation states. Enclaves, family groups, self selecting townships - whatever works. Think company cultures, neighborhood cultures. We should be looking for a wide variety of people to work on all of our problems. The more diverse their cultural background, the more likely their strengths will pull together, and not their weaknesses.


    Bibliography

    Popular articles on the topic can be found here:

    https://www.michelegelfand.com/popular-press 


    Nickerson, Charlotte, Hofstede’s Cultural Dimensions Theory, 2022.05.02.
    This is a nice summary of Hofstede’s original work, and some additions by others.
    https://www.simplypsychology.org/hofstedes-cultural-dimensions-theory.html 


    OK. Enough for now. I’ll be back in a bit when I have read the book. Until then - Stay Safe. And spend a few minutes actually THINKING about this stuff - with your slow brain. Thanks for that.

    Monday, May 9, 2022

    Words To Win By - Elections in the face of Racism

     I have puzzled about what is going on with our electorate for more than a decade - I think I understand it a bit now. If you really want to see that, here is my blog post. The answer is simple - we are a racist nation. What to do about it is the problem. 

    When I found this Words To Win By Podcast it hit me just right. This is an approach that seems to work in our fractured world.. This podcast has used science, research, interviews, and a lot of work, to discover the best way to deal with this racist world in our elections. Our natural inclination is to be polite, and just ignore the racist dog whistles and fear mongering sent our way by the opposition. But that is a mistake. We do not want to repeat their message, but we do want to call it out, counter it, send an inclusive message to overcome it. That is what the rest of this entry is about.

    So, if you are of the "racist" leaning - you should probably stop here. You could of course write me a nasty note at the bottom - I promise to read it. If you are brave, you might read just a bit more. Thanks for that.

    Greater than Fear - Minnesota
    Over the last decade, it has become crystal clear that politics is not a rational debate. People are so driven by fear that their thinking freezes up. Politicians on the right have become adept at “dog whistle” messages - using racial threats masked by clever wording to make people afraid. The Words to Win By researcher Anat Shenker-Osorio came to Minnesota in 2018 to help the state overcome this fear mongering. The key is to expressly counter the racism - not to ignore it.

    This was not a simplistic get out the vote campaign. This was a focused message based on a lot of research and work. The Greater than Fear banner is one result. And the tagline is just as important. “In Minnesota we’re better off together.” The message is that we are stronger with a multi-racial, multi-ethnic heritage. The popular wisdom is to ignore the racial threat message - but that does not work. The other side simply repeats it. A better approach is to counter it with a positive multi-racial message. Once people understand how the messaging works, the power of the fear is defeated. 

    Their research on the political attitudes in MN is also significant. I was surprised to learn that only 27% of MN voters are on “our” side, with 30% on “their” side, and a “persuadable” population of 44%. The numbers are different in metropolitan MN, but the statewide ones are scary. 

    https://wordstowinby-pod.com/greater-than-fear-minnesota/ 
    To listen to the podcast there is a small PLAY button near the top of the page. It’s just 30 minutes, and I am sure you will find it very enlightening. 

    Below is a pointer to a PDF with a nice summary of the research behind this effort. It also contains simple wording messages, pictures, and more details. 
    https://bravenewwordspod.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Minnesota-Race-Class-Narrative-research-brief.pdf 

    Unfortunately, the certificate for that site has expired and most browsers will alert you to a potential risk. Feel free to click on the link, and go to "advanced". It will simply download a PDF of the research. If that causes you concern,  I put a copy of the document here which you can retrieve without qualms. 

    All In Wisconsin -  All in for All of Us.
    WI was a key swing state in the 2020 election. This podcast describes the methods, the words, the messages, the talking points they used to win the state. Remember, this is based on research - not someone’s opinion. We are about science, aren’t we? If you find better information, better science - let me know. 

    Podcast is here:  https://wordstowinby-pod.com/season-2-episode-1/  
    The play button is right at the top. Our prior President won WI  by 0.77% of the vote. Our current president won by 0.63%. A 1.4% point move.

    The key point again is that we cannot just ignore the race / class fear raised by the other side. We need to confront it expressly. AND - this is a whole lot of work - no magic bullet.

    I put a copy of the WI Messaging Guide here in case you want to review it. What to say, what to focus on, etc. The MN research is here, in case you missed it.

    Additional Resources

    Sunday, May 1, 2022

    People Across Borders - Mission Today

     PEOPLE ACROSS BORDERS

    If you are at all interested in the following topics, you should thoroughly enjoy the presentation that you will find below.  Topics:

    1. Missionary Methods - you thought you understood that at some point - well, it has changed. It’s not about conversion - think broader. 

    2. Sister Parish or parish twinning - if you have some history in that - this will change everything you ever thought about it.

    3. Conflict Resolution - between individuals, countries, cultures - how to help heal them. 

    4. Peace on earth - I could not resist that one. But that really is the fundamental Christian message, isn’t it?


    Maryknoll Mission Direction

    This weekend, Jude participated in a Maryknoll Full Circle discussion via Zoom that was amazing. Maryknoll does a good job in holding on to all of the “ex” members. The President of Maryknoll introduced the session, and spoke about their work on recasting their fundamental view of mission. The keynote speaker brought an amazing perspective to that discussion.


    She is Rabbi Victoria (Vicki) Armour-Hileman. (Page down a bit for the text.) She was born in New York City. She has been a Catholic lay missioner since 1988 and has served in Hong Kong, Thailand, and the United States. She is the admissions manager of Maryknoll Lay Missioners. She is an ordained rabbi, and has extensive experience in education.

    See longer CV at the bottom of this piece.


    To cut to the quick, here is the link to her talk. If this disappears for some reason,let me know - I made a copy.  https://youtu.be/YZ-AELx7650 

    This is a recording of a PPT. Her internet was unstable, and they decided to go with the pre recorded presentation. If you want to see what she looks like, see the link below.

    The talk covers the history of “mission” in the church, and the actual accomplishment of the first 3 waves. She describes the fourth wave as 

    • Building the “One Earth Community”. 

    • Building bridges in a broken world

    • Missionaries as bridges across cultures and nations. 

    • Mission is about recognizing our kinship and connection as part of the whole earth community, 

    • Spreading the gospel means to act out of a sense of community and connection with all creation, human and non human.


    At the end of the conference, she also did the final prayer - a reflection on an old Hebrew song. The video lets you see what she looks like, so you might want to watch it first. It includes:

    a) the explanation of the Hebrew of the song, b) the song itself,  and c) a final blessing after the song fades. Here is the link:    https://youtu.be/Sn4d6UBF3is 


    New Maryknoll Leadership

    This is a relatively short video by the newly elected Maryknoll Leadership about their new direction:  https://vimeo.com/705952479 Password:  fullcircle07. 


    Maryknoll Lay Missioners

    If you want to know more about this outfit, here’s their page: https://mklm.org/ 

    The speaker has written quite a few articles published there: https://mklm.org/author/vicki/ 


    My Comments

    I love her read of Christian history and tradition and the path forward. This is beyond converting the heathen - this is to change the world. This is how we extend the good news message, person to person, group to group, to heal a broken planet. If the gospel means anything today - this is part of it. 


    The future of mission is Sister Parish, Twinning, cross cultural, cross religions, international. It is building relationships across national and religious boundaries to create a single human community. The world needs this healing at every level. The focus is on relationships - between families, parishes, countries, and individuals via visits and technology (ZOOM)! Missionaries are channels to build relationships. Direct conversations mediated by ”missionaries”.  I have many good friends who do exactly that in their work in Africa and elsewhere. A new global community - the real gospel. No barriers, no walls, people without borders! We need a name??


        PEOPLE ACROSS BORDERS! 

    --------------------------------------------

    Vicki Armour-Hileman was a lay missioner in Hong Kong and Thailand before being elected to the first leadership team of the newly founded Maryknoll Mission Association of the Faithful in 1994. In 2018, after several years of teaching at various universities, she returned to Maryknoll lay Missioners, where she currently works in the Mission Services and Communications Departments. Over the past year, Vicki has been researching and reflecting on a question about the future of mission: Given a world that is simultaneously more connected and more splintered than ever before, what can and should mission look like, and how can we all be involved? She will share her reflections on this topic during the April Full Circle Gathering.


    Education: MFA in Poetry from the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, PhD in British and American Literature from the University of Iowa, and rabbinic ordination from Hebrew Union College.



    Wednesday, April 27, 2022

    2022 04 27 What We Do About Politics

     2022 04 27 What We Do About Politics

    I have been struggling for the past decade to try and make some sense of politics. What on earth is going on in our country? What has happened to our democracy? What does science and research tell us that might help us understand and change the direction? I have read a small pile of books and articles, listened to podcasts, searched high and low. I have some understanding of what is going on in humans that gives rise to all of this, but I need something we can actually DO to try to change things. WHAT?


    I finally found a priceless gem. I have looked at the psychology of all of this, and neuroscience, but this is more pragmatic, nuts and bolts -, a set of tools based on research on what works and what does not to motivate people to vote. These organizations actually research the types of messages that our politicians and the media put forth, to learn what works and what does not. The right side of our political spectrum (conservatives) seem to have figured this out pretty well. They push the right buttons, and they get a response. The left side (progressives) are a bit behind the curve. Having a one sided discussion and game is never going to move us forward. 


    Here are the resources. Just looking at the websites will give you a sense of the way these messages are focused. This is not a collection of opinions. This is based on research - surveys, studies, experiments - to see which messages resonate with people. 


    The very best thing is that this first talk listed below gave me HOPE - she sees many positive signs, and has many excellent tools available. 


    We Can Do This. We WILL do this.


    Introduction to Words To Win By

    This is an interview with Anat Shenker Osario, the author of "Words To Win By" podcast. She gives a nice summary of the research, and the primary lessons learned in the past few years. It is available on YouTube and in the original podcast.

    • YouTube link: https://youtu.be/0An8O_x9KmA 

    • 2022 02 10 Podcast
        https://www.futurehindsight.com/episode/winning-messages-anat-shenker-osorio/
      This site has a full text transcription of the podcast which I find to be a bit easier.

    • Words to Win By podcast: Anat Shenker Osario   https://wordstowinby-pod.com/ 

    • Future Hindsight Podcast  https://www.futurehindsight.com/ 

    • Aso Communications - the organization behind this: https://www.asocommunications.com/  The website also has some nice shorthand lessons, such as:
      Conventional wisdom says to meet people where they are. But, on most issues, where they are is unacceptable. Applying tools from cognition and linguistics, we uncover where people are capable of going and how to use our words, images and stories to move them.

    • We Make The Future
      We Make the Future (WMTF) was founded in 2021 and is built on the implementation work of Race Class Narrative Action with ASO Communications and Faith in Minnesota and rooted in Race Class Narrative research.
      We are building a multiracial movement across age, class, faith, and zip code to reinstill hope in our democracy and build a brighter tomorrow. Learn more about what we do and the movement to build a place where everyone is safe and free, no exceptions.
      The site has messaging guides and outlines and similar tools.
      This is one on how to talk about climate change in MN - do’s and don’t’s.
      https://www.wemakethefuture.us/  

    • Faith in Minnesota - the political arm of ISIAH.
      Faith in Minnesota is a political home for people of faith who are acting boldly and prophetically to create a new, people-centered politics in our state — one rooted in abundance, where everyone is in and no one is out. Faith in Minnesota, the 501(c)4 arm of ISAIAH, gives us a new platform for living more fully into our moral citizenship by allowing us to organize and advocate directly in our state’s elections and political process. It is a vehicle for creating a Minnesota that is inclusive and just for every person.   https://faithinmn.org/ 


    Key Takeaways

    I thought it might help if I summarized some of the things I learned in the course of writing this.

    • Voting is a Verb. Do not focus on issues and complicated ideas. Focus on the FREEDOM to vote, and your power in doing that. Even democracy is too complicated these days - it is about exercising the FREEDOM to vote to enable all of the other possibilities that we can accomplish together.

    • Don’t Push Back. Call for action to move forward. The right says that the election was a fraud - if we just say “there was no fraud”, “no fraud”, we are relating their message. We need to say: This was the most fair election in US history, as testified to by scores and scores of election officials from both parties. Joe Biden won the largest majority of the popular vote ever recorded. He carried more counties and cities than any other candidate in history.

    • Don’t ASK - TELL. Don’t ask what we can do to get young people to vote - that just sends the message to young people that they do not vote. Instead, tell them they have the power to change things. More young people voted in this last election than have ever participated in history. YOU have the power to change things. YOU are in charge with your FREEDOM to vote. YOU are going to change the world. Predict it - don’t ask for it.

    • Define the Moment. We are at a critical crossroads, a pivotal point. YOUR vote will make the difference in the freedom we all enjoy in the future.

    • Don’t do Negative - Spur Defiance. NOT: They are trying to silence our voices - so you should vote. RATHER: We delivered the goods in 2020, if anyone thinks they are going to silence our voices, they have another think coming. We will show up, we will fight to elect real leaders to vote in our name.

    • Use First Person Plural - These are OUR problems, This is what WE need.

    • Speak about what we can do - not the dangers of doing nothing.

    • What You Fight You Feed: Progressive messages often lead with "no" and "don't." We rely on fear and anger — reactive emotions. To sustain long-term movements, we must shift from cataloging what we're resisting to painting a desirable portrait of the world we seek.

    • Engage The Base, Persuade The Middle If your words don't spread, by definition, they don't work. To break a signal through the incessant political noise requires constant repetition. That's why our messages must persuade the middle while also energizing the base.

    Wednesday, April 20, 2022

    A Slight Change of Plans - being a cop

     A Slight Change of Plans - being a cop 

    This is a bit of a departure from my normal blog content. I just listened to a podcast that gave me a strong empathic feeling as to what it means to be male, to be female, to be a cop. I learned a bit of empathy. I thought others might as well.


    The podcast is 30 minutes - please give it a listen. The website for the podcast is here:

       https://www.pushkin.fm/show/slight-change-of-plans/

    There is a good introduction there, and I copied a bit here:


    Named by Apple as the Best Show of the Year 2021, host Dr. Maya Shankar blends compassionate storytelling with the science of human behavior to help us understand who we are, and who we become, in the face of a big change.


    Dr. Shankar has many interesting podcasts. This one is “I’m Not as Free as I Thought”. You can look for it in your podcast app, or use this link:

       https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/im-not-as-free-as-i-thought/id1561860622


    As noted, it’s only 30 minutes, but I found it very meaningful, and I hope you will as well.


    Stay Safe.